Hello my dear "followers"! lol That's seems like I have a cult going on or something. Yes, it has been a little bit since I've last written, however I'm in a MUCH better place. In regards to all my issues I've been facing. I've learned to TRUST God with all my situations. I do not doubt Him anymore. I honestly think He has been using these situations to get me to 100% trust Him! Duh!
Update: I finally won my unemployment case. I'm so excited about that. It took an appeal and a "no show" appearance by my previous employer for me to win. Whatever works. Oh and LOTS of prayer. I haven't prayed that hard in a long time. So at least we've got that income coming in.
I still haven't heard from my "perfect" job I wanted. They told me 2-4 weeks and I'd hear, HOWEVER, for some reason I still have my hopes up. ONLY because they have a job posting for a Human Resource Manager, so maybe the process is taking longer because of that, and also, the Monday after my interview, I called the manager of the department that I interviewed for, just to ask her if she had any further questions and she told me no, but they had a few more candidate to interview that upcoming week. So, I'm figuring that they were also told 2-4 weeks as I was by the HR assistant who interviewed me first, as she stated due to processing. So even though it's been 4 weeks, I'm keeping my hopes up a notch that maybe, just maybe the job hasn't been filled yet. I've continued searching, and not received any calls. I feel like I've applied at a hundred different places, however I don't want to take something just to take it either. I want to enjoy my job, especially after this previous one I had! I really had a good feeling about this job I like. Just can't explain it. As my husband says, (who's been SUPER supportive), "what's meant to be, is meant to be". I agree with him, however I still want that job! LOL
Today I feel good about myself. Sorta. I've needed to go through my closet and get rid of a bunch of clothes I don't wear. Either they don't fit or I got them home, didn't like them, or wore them once and saw myself in a mirror and didn't like, etc. I literally have-just so far-6 garbage bags of clothes. Very nice clothes. The ones w/a button missing, etc. I put in the regular garbage. I still have one more closet to go, where I keep my winter sweaters. I'm always hot, and I don't wear sweaters that often, so I know most of those will go. As I was doing this tonight, I teared up. One reason was because I was depressed that I couldn't fit in some of the cute stuff I was folding away or depressed because it didn't look good on me. However, most of all, the biggest reason was shame. Shame on me for having so many clothes! That I don't want! So there went my self esteem again. I know shame and guilt are of the devil....so I just said out loud to God, "I'm sorry!" Just those 2 simple words as tears filled my eyes.
So now, I'm feeling good again because of how good it feels to have gotten rid of so much already. I don't NEED that many pieces of clothing. I usually wear the same things over and over...the things I like! I was also thinking about "purging" my life as well. So much stuff I need to get rid of in my life to make room for better stuff...good stuff...God stuff! I'm trying so hard to get better. The anxiety is kinda trying to take over again. Getting attacks out of the blue...especially at night.
I had another episode of guilt last night. I'll just go ahead and admit this. I don't believe she reads my blogs, but she understands what I've been through and going through. Last night, I had a very severe anxiety attack. I had to put my puppy night night because she was just wanting to play and being needy and I was "freaking out". She was fine with that anyway! Anyway, I was laying on the couch..popped a pill...watching "Intervention"..no, just kidding about the "Intervention" part...no worries, I'm not a druggie! LOL Told myself to calm down..did my breathing exercises and then just started thinking about EVERYTHING under the sun.
I had a date to meet this friend of mine, who has a child with spina bifida, to see a movie Tuesday night (which would've been tonight). She and I were going, as well as her 2 girls to see a different movie. My friend is getting married in September, so we were going to see "Bridesmaids" and and the girls were going to see "Monte Carlo" and at night is her only chance to go see a movie or get out at all, that way her fiance can watch their lil' girl. Well during my panic and thinking about everything, all these thoughts of "doom" were flowing. So I cancelled on her. I felt awful and still do because I know she was excited for a night away (obviously no offense to her daughter) but she is such a GREAT Mom and does SO much for that family and this was her chance to have fun. I haven't spoke to her except to get her response it was OK. Bless her heart, but I hope she went w/the 2 girls and had fun still. So I see my therapist tomorrow to see why the extra anxiety. Talk it out. That usually helps. Maybe the job thing is all settling down? or sinking in? Although, I must say, I'm not much of a night movie goer. I don't like the packed theaters where people sit on top of you...I dunno...I'd just rather go during the afternoon. So my poor husband for years, we've done date night the opposite...."movie and dinner". For some reason, I have made the exceptions for the Twilight movies at midnight. Still I get there early-get my seat and don't move.
For some reason, doing things by myself seems much better and more fun. I don't know if it's because I have control of what we do, where we go, etc.? My husband has a business trip he has to go on in a few months and I'm thinking of driving to NC to see my new cousin. Actually she'll be almost a year old by then...but I've been dying to see her. It doesn't scare me at all to think of traveling by myself. hmmmm....???
Well, I'd better quit blabbing. I've been meaning to blog here lately and tonight felt like the night! ha ha!
I hope everyone is doing well! Thanks for checkin' out my grumblings....lol or "venting"....I guess that's what a blog is for though eh? Sometimes. I'm trying to work on not being such a debbie downer....a new step each day....day by day! Right? Right!
Keep on goin' on!
Love,
Aim
